The only solution that worked for me (node 12.x, npm 6.x) was using npm-force-resolutions developed by @Rogerio Chaves.
First, install it by:
npm install npm-force-resolutions --save-dev
You can add --ignore-scripts if some broken transitive dependency scripts are blocking you from installing anything.
Then in package.json define what dependency should be overridden (you must set exact version number):
"resolutions": {
"your-dependency-name": "1.23.4"
}
and in "scripts" section add new preinstall entry:
"preinstall": "npm-force-resolutions",
Now, npm install will apply changes and force your-dependency-name to be at version 1.23.4 for all dependencies.